when ENTJ’s and INTJ’s World’s collide!

Laura the INTJFor anyone who has enjoyed studying personality or taking the variety of tests available, have you ever wondered if personality and political affiliation are related? Well, there is a certain amount of  correlational data  to support this idea.

Hmmmm… I wasn’t surprised that my wife’s personality type skewed to the right. She is an INTJ …and 43% of all INTJ’s report themselves as either ‘Republican or Conservative’ …. this is the 2nd highest percentage on the right of all 17 personality categories (only 14% of the INTJ’s said they were ‘not political’) 

From these same researchers, allow me share some of the highlights of what they had to say about  INTJ’s:

“…When under a great deal of stress, the INTJ may become obsessed with mindless repetitive, Sensate activities, such as over-drinking…. Other people may have a difficult time understanding an INTJ…. They may see them as aloof and reserved… INTJs tend to blame misunderstandings on the limitations of the other party, rather than on their own difficulty in expressing themselves…”

Here I am the ENTJ working to develope a harmonious relationship with my spouse

Poor, poor INTJ’s… by contrast…  ENTJ’s are quite different:

“As an ENTJ, your primary mode of living is focused externally, where you deal with things rationally and logically…. ENTJs are natural born leaders…. which is well-served by their quickness to grasp complexities, their ability to absorb a large amount of impersonal information, and their quick and decisive judgments. They are “take charge” people….The ENTJ has a tremendous amount of personal power and presence which will work for them as a force towards achieving their goals….They’re likely to place much emphasis on their children being well-educated and structured, to desire a congenial and devoted relationship with their spouse.”

Okay…Okay, I pulled a ‘Dan Rather’, I picked out what I wanted to say about both personality types for selfish reasons… believe me, INTJ’s are really quite interesting people. The hard truth is that for every individual — regardless of personality type — there exists specific challenges that must be met in order to be happy in life….. they just may be different types of challenges. ENTJ’s (Me), for example, must refrain from being overly absorbed in their career… or life and love passes them by.

By the way, I am an ENTJ, and we — as a group — tend to be a little less politically active than the norm with 25% of us saying we are ‘not political.’ However, the largest segment of ENTJ’s  describe themselves as either Democrat or liberal (45%).

After this ‘revelation’, Laura now looks at me with a ‘cautious eye.’ However, from what I can tell… when ENTJ’s (me) and INTJ’s get together… ENTJ’s (me) think they are in charge… but INTJ’s eventually get their way.

Roger Freberg

Crazy Middle Aged Ninja Dieters!

excessive dieting makes everythnig look delicious.. even... YOU!

My daughter Karla remarked that everyone on the Jenny Craig diet ( that includes all but Karla) seem to walking around sizing up just about every THING as to ‘edibility.’ That’s not quite true, I never thought about eating my neighbor’s dogs…hmmm… maybe, I could just ‘wok’ their dogs? hmmmm delicious!

After listening to Karen’s ‘foodie’ experiences in South Africa, particularly, sampling the game… Karla drew up a nice little picture of Karen chasing down ‘some’ of the items on her menu! I do understand Karen’s motivation… Laura says that I am now ‘hoarding’ wine and game meats ( Pheasant.com & Ostrich Farm)…. well… it goes with my 8 frozen turkeys!

Bobotie on Sunday! hmmmm…good!

Roger Freberg

PS. So, today was a Jenny Craig weigh-in day for me and I dropped another 2 lbs to 242. Oddly enough, this was my lowest collegiate weight as an athlete…. so I am moving in the right direction now.

What wine goes best with Bobotie with blatjang sauce?

More niteresting wines from South Africa.... part 3

I am certain that this is a question that everyone who works in a kitchen wonders? What South African wine is best served with fresh baked Bobotie? Ah, I know what you are thinking… is the Bobotie young or fully matured?

Actually, Bobotie is said to be a ‘hot contender for South Africa’s national Dish” ( in  “Rainbow Cuisine” by Lannice Snyman ) and it looks like a wonderful caserol style dish… which I will prepare this Sunday.

As for the wines, here is a listing of 5 new ones… new — that is — for me!

Goats do Roam — ” Thus was born, in 1999, what was for the South African wine scene an innovative blend using Rhône varieties such as shiraz, cinsaut, carignan and mourvèdre with a dash of local pinotage, which Back had sourced from various vineyards (his own and others) around Paarl and Malmesbury.”

Kanu — “The name Kanu is derived from a  veteran farm hand on Goedgeloof,  who told of the legend of a mythical bird of promise. The story tells that when the bird appeared, all those who fell under its shadow would be blessed with a bountiful harvest.”

Kanon Kop — “Kanonkop Estate has been described by those in the know as being the South African equivalent of a Premier Cru or First Growth. International awards accumulated over more than a decade have gone a long way to substantiate these claims.”

Indaba — “Indaba is the Zulu word that translates to a ‘meeting of minds’ or ‘assembly of Chiefs’.  This is the spirit of the brand which was founded in the 1990’s on the newly unified South Africa. It represents the communications which lead to the historical changes in South Africa. Mzokhona Mvemve is the head winemaker at Indaba.”  

Where to buy wine on-line? Try Southern Wine

…and Ostrich meat?  Ostrich Meat Company

Roger Freberg

PS. I am awaiting another very fine wine…. from Klein Constantia‘s ‘Vin de Constance’

 

UPDATE: Jenny Craig is Working … DOWN 76.6 lbs!

Dad dropped some more weight!

Well, in spite of my best efforts to submarine myself on moving Karen’s stuff to Tennessee… chomping down at the “Texan”, gulping down a “Bloomin’ Onion” at the Outback, and striding out on a “Cajun Ribeye” at the Marketplace in Arkansas… I still lost about 4 lbs!

Thank you Jenny Craig!

So, all total I have lost 76.6 lbs. since December… very cool!

Roger Freberg

 

Today is a birthday we all share…

Living free is never easy

Sometimes, we take for granted why our fathers first came to this great country. In search of opportunity, some traversed great distances ; for others, it was to escape the constraints of the past; while thousands came for adventure and ,unfortunately, too many came against their will … but through conflict and time comes resolution … and this has helped to further define and shape us into who we are today… a strong, wise, adaptable and generous people.

Looking back, the world has changed much since 1776 when America became the first land of choices and dreams…. and hope. And thanks to the sacrifices of those who met the challenges of the past, America still exists today. 

Enjoy today, for July 4th is a birthday we in America all share…. and whether you celebrate this birthday or not with me, this too — in America — is your choice.

Roger Freberg

PS. I only wish there was a championship football game playing… then it would be perfect!