A Tribute to SMART Girls

aaaah... the smarter they are... the simpler the play

 

I think it was in an early Star Trek… the original series… the quote went something like this…’the more intelligent the mind… the more the need for the simplicity of play!

Video Games have always been a part of our life… long before our children came into being, we played ‘pong’ on the airlines and competed in ‘break out’ on Atari in the ’70’s.

Smart girls are G*d’s gift to men who need someone to talk to. This is very different from wanting someone who will just listen… very different. Conversation is best when it is interactive.

Have you ever met really dumb kids from smart dads? Did you ever wonder where this comes from? Then you meet the mother…. and it becomes clearer. Men who father children with dumb women shouldn’t be surprised with what turns out… studies have shown that a woman’s IQ is the greatest determining factor in the success of her children. Don’t get me wrong… we ‘Y’ chromozomes play a huge role… but … it is not all about us.

Intelligent women are not without their challenges, be they wives or daughters… but it makes life’s journey all the better.

One young man asked me what I thought was important in a woman… besides attraction, fidelity and a moral center… which is important, I had some light hearted suggestions. Well… we are talking about other areas of compatibility… sooo :

TEST

1) She must love football & sports is not just a spectator sport

2) She must have a working knowledge of computers…
if she understands where her ‘auto exec bat file’ is…
she’s perfect

3) Video Gaming is a lifestyle … does she know what a ‘lan party’ is?

4) She must understand that Star Trek is not one series.
If she knows that some Star Trek movies were made that’s a plus
and if she can name any of the ‘shuttle craft’…
then she is perfect

5) If you say, “Stargate’… she’s a winner if she
says, “never miss it!”

6) She can cook with more than a microwave…
after all, replicators haven’t been invented yet.

7) Rub your eyes with excitement if she wants to go
to a ‘steak place’ for dinner

TEST SCORE: 

5-7 yesses… ‘Marry Her’

2-4 yesses… ‘we’re friends’

0-1 yesses… “I think we need to
take some time off from our
relationship so that we
can better explore our feelings ”

I asked Karla to do some research on this subject and this is what she found:

Video Games make you smart!
Video Games are Good For People
Women who play video games!

Karla says,” my two personal favorite series are Sonic the Hedgehog and Star Fox .Whenever we go shopping at an Electronics store, I always come to help get the newest video games I want, whenever they come out. I am an undefeated player in most video games today, and I kicks everyone’s butt in Mario Kart.”
(editor’s note: Karla is a tough cookie!)

Smart girls rock,

Roger Freberg

 

Got football?… or do Sumo? Takes a big man & a big heart!

Well, many folks in our world are really afraid of big men. Fear drives some of the stranges actions by those less challenged by gravity.

Just another Big Guy... besides I love Watching Sumo Wrestling when I can find it!I often find myself most comfortable with men my size… larger men… because we understand each other. We don’t fall into the ‘normal range’ of the BMI (body mass index) because our bones are bigger and denser and we are more thickly muscled…. and we ride Harley’s.  That’s the way it is.

We do get strange looks from smaller men — not all — but some generally act with  what we jokingly refer to as ‘castration anxiety.’ As for me, personally, I prefer fried bull testicles… so there should be no worries.

So, here comes a study about ‘overweight’ young football players from the athletically challenged:

“Researchers at Iowa State University found nearly half of the offensive and defensive linemen playing on Iowa high school teams qualify as overweight, and one in 10 meet medical standards for severe obesity.”

Read on and you will discover that they worry about who will be our children’s ‘role models’ and they fret impotently about the ‘obesity’ epidemic in America. However, the real worry shouldn’t be about these big athletic young athletes… because they are at least ‘active’…. one should be concerned about why others are going fat… and this is highly correlated with the limitation or elimination of physical education in high school and the reduction of recess in the lower grades. 

If this wasn’t bad enough, all too many sports have been banned on the playground in schools today… from the ‘high bars’ to swingsets to dodgeball to anything ‘competitive’, it really shouldn’t shock us that kids are inactive…. because these same sorts of people are encouraging them to be this way…. it’s ‘cooperation not competition’ taken to extremes.

There is a real lesson here. Years ago, a heart specialist told me … he was one of my workout partners at UCLA while I was an athlete there… “you can never rebuild your cardiovascular system in middle age if you neglect it in your youth”. The morale is simple: we are doing far greater harm by not insisting on a vigorous athletic youth than criticising — say football players — for being naturally bigger than the average soccer player… which — as we know — is a non sport.

So, let’s encourage our youth to participate in a sport… any real sport… they’ll thank you for it later.

Roger Freberg

YOU can’t be happy… IF she’s not HAPPY!

When Laura is happy... the world is a brighter and more wonderful place.... so I keep it that way!A wiser and much older man once gave me a piece of golden advice after reflecting on his happy and successful life… it didn’t mean much to me then… because I was only 10 years old, but I promised to file it away until such time as it may be of use.

He said,” You can never be happy , if she is not happy.” I won’t say that I have always remembered his advice… but it has kept me from falling into those mantraps that few marriages ever survive.

Now, I think most people realize that you really don’t make anyone happy in this world by giving them everything they ever wanted. You make them happy by creating an environment and providing the tools and resources that aid any person in achieving their personal goals.

Laura passed on an article entitled, “Spouse’s Personality May be Hazardous to your health.” As you will discover, the article deals with how the personality of a ‘patient’ recovering from a health issue directly affects the emotional happiness of the caregiving spouse. 

there is a little bright eyed 'BooThe most important lesson of this study is a simple one: “Optimism in one spouse appeared to have beneficial effects for the partner.” So, there are many things one can do to lighten the mood in a home… here are just a few:

1) Allow the sun into the home… keep the windows open.

2) Place fresh flowers in the most heavily used parts of your home.

3) Keep the environment pleasant… light music, ample reading material and a willingness to talk and listen.

4) Bake and cook what others enjoy. All homes feel better with fresh bread in the oven…. the smell is enticing and unmistakeable.

When a family member is down… it’s up to everyone — including the one afflicted — to keep the mood light.

Roger Freberg

Happy Birthday Louis Zamperini …. Trojan Hero

Happy Trojan Birthday Louis Zamperini 

“Louis Zamperini, who was one of USC’s greatest distance runners and gained international acclaim for his amazing exploits during World War II, will be honored at a dinner celebrating his 90th birthday on Friday, Jan. 26, at 6:30 p.m. at USC’s Town & Gown.

A 3-year USC letterman (1938-39-40) who co-captained the 1940 Trojan squad and was a member of 3 NCAA championship teams, Zamperini was the NCAA champion in the mile run in 1938 and 1939. The collegiate mile record (4:08.3) that he set lasted for 15 years. He placed eighth in the 5,000-meter run at the 1936 Olympics.

read the bookHe was lost at sea during World War II, spending 47 days adrift and then two-and-a-half years as a prisoner of war in Japan. Following the war, he returned to Japan as a missionary. In 1998, he carried the Olympic torch (his third of five times) through his former POW camp outside Nagano. His experience was the subject of a CBS-TV feature and an upcoming book.

Tables and seats for the dinner are available by contacting Friends of Louis Zamperini, P.O. Box 50107, Pasadena, Calif., 91115 or emailing John@JohnNaber.com. Personal messages can be included in the tribute’s printed program for a tax deductible contribution.”

A book on his exploits is available on Amazon.com 

A Southern California Trojan ... who can say more?

Happy Birthday, Louis

 

Roger Freberg

 

NCAA caves in on Graduate Transfer Policy

Karen Freberg competed as an Undergraduate for the Florida Gators and a Granduate Student for the Southern California Trojans 

Who was it who said — referring to the NCAA’s graduate student transfer rule, “we gotta close that loophole!” ? Yep, it was Florida Gator football coach Urban Meyer… and what seemed like only moments later he brings in a ‘ringer’..er… a ‘graduate’ student.

Ryan Smith, a former athlete under Urban Meyer at Utah transfers to Florida. His reasons seem more athletic than academic… but so be it.

Unhappy with his position coach and his playing time at the University of Utah, the cornerback wanted a chance to come to Florida to reunite with former position coach Chuck Heater.

Here’s how one of Urban’s local papers reported the recent NCAA decision to eliminate the Graduate transfer rule:

 The override came despite overwhelming support by the NCAA’s Student-Athletic Advisory Committee.

“I think a lot of coaches and athletic directors are very frightened. Fear drove the circumstances and won,” said David Goldfield, a professor and faculty athletic representative from North Carolina-Charlotte. “All of us here — coaches, athletic representatives or administrators — are in the business of helping students fulfill their dreams, whether they’re academic or athletic. This override contradicts that objective.”

As the NCAA Advisory committee said: “fear drove the circumstances and won.”

Karen wrote a nice blog about the NCAA transfer policy back in August.

As Karen said: “The main reason that athletes go to college is to get a college education– sometimes coaches and others in the athletic department sometimes forget that.”

This policy also hurts female athletes :

“Transfer policies make it difficult, if not impossible, for athletes to escape an unprofessional coach without sacrificing their athletic careers.”

 

Art by Karla Freberg

The issue is not as simple as many coaches would like everyone to believe… and they really can’t offer any justification for blocking or penalizing someone who wants to leave or pursue their academic career.

  Very few athletes who went on to graduate school this year (less than 1%) took advantage of the former transfer rule…

Let them go, Urbans out there..  It shouldn’t all be about you.

Roger Freberg