take your hubby to work day 2008

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I have posted on this before, but I feel that it is one of the things that brings couples closer when they understand a little about what goes on in their ‘significant other’s’ professional life.

Taking a day to walk in the others person moccasins — so to speak — provides a lot of insight, understanding and respect for what your special person does in their day.

I like to go with Laura to visit her classes on her busiest days and today fit that category. She taught: Introduction to Psychology, Biological Psychology and Disorders in Children. We lunched together and then she sat at a table on campus handling donations for our soldiers.

Thank goodness for coffee! Thank you Laura for sharing your day.

Roger

what is there to be thankful for?

be thnakful and change or world for the better!

Researchers have found that people are happier who do not watch T.V. I would add to that list one more item: newspapers.

In today’s local Tribune appeared a column by a curmudgeon columnist Lon Allan apparently reveling in his own cheapness. If that we’re enough, he looked on rather dispassionately towards his daughter who just lost both her home and her job. Apparently, he felt she deserved it. He came from that generation that had a lot, graduated high school in the 50’s, walked into good jobs and never, never had much stress into their lives until their children raised on ‘unconditional love’ and a parental neglect then came along to haunt them in the 60’s. I know so many of these folks who are more concerned about the price of gas on the Winnebago and the drop in their investments than their grand kid on drugs.

So what is there to be thankful for, Lon?  Here are a few thoughts on making your life and the lives of others better:

1) YOU CAN STILL MAKE A DIFFERENCE in your life and the lives of others for the better. It’s easy to believe that as one individual among millions that your voice will not be heard, but you can. And even if you don’t make a dent on the national level, you can make a giant positive change at home, if you work at it. Believe this and it will become so.
2) LOVE IS NOT BLIND, nor is it deft. Mean what you say, and say what you mean. Families that are open and honest with each other are happier and carry less baggage. It won’t prevent hard feelings, but then everyone knows where everyone stands. Life then can go on.

3) EVERYONE NEEDS A LEG UP. Sir Isaac Newton made this famous thought commonplace:  “If I can see further than anyone else, it is only because I am standing on the shoulders of giants.” Few people go very far without support and mentors. If you support and mentor someone, it can change your world and theirs. It’s not a handout that people really need, it’s a leg up.

4) NURTURING COURAGE in someone today is helping them overcome future obstacles tomorrow. Famous turn-of-the-century Psychologist William James addressed the philosophical question: does the bear make me afraid or am I afraid when I see a bear? Professor James said that we are either afraid or we are not, implying that it is our reaction or control of ourselves that makes all the difference. As Mark Twain once wrote,”Courage is resistance to fear, mastery of fear–not absence of fear.”

So, work for a positive influence and change in your life and the lives of those you love, help those you can and be thankful for the bounty and the miracles you have.

Happy Thanksgiving!

Roger Freberg

I look above to the picture from Evan Maloney’s documentary “Indoctrinate U.”  As for me, I am truly thankful that I am not that chubby anymore!

the Bill Of Privileges

Cal Poly San Luis Obispo has a history of free speech oppression

I grew up in a little town where we were required to learn a little bit about how our country works, the principles on which it was founded, the thoughts behind our founding and the rules they set forth in the beginning. Unfortunately, all too many folks do not know or understand something as simple as our BILL OF RIGHTS.

Simply put, Certain constraints are put on those who wish to govern. In addition, certain ‘rights’ (protections) are granted to everyone to insure that our government will not be too intrusive or annoying.

The importance of this became clear recently when a local ‘mob’ wanted to tar and feather a few Cal Poly students for their tasteless and tacky Halloween display. Under normal circumstances, Cal Poly — I believe — would have acted inappropriately and illegally towards these young people. As a rule, Cal Poly has a history of  ‘washing their hands’ before turning folks over to any assembled mob.

So, feeling that Cal Poly was about to make another mistake, I stepped in and wrote the following letter to the editor:

‘Educate the mob’

I don’t normally do this, so I have to congratulate Cal Poly for doing something right. It’s not that I think they wanted to, but it is the law.

Recently, some very self-righteous folks have been lambasting a few Cal Poly folks for flying a rebel flag along with some very tasteless decorations for some sort of Halloween party. I am not supporting what they did, just their right to be tacky and tasteless and their right to offend both you and me.

Cal Poly’s administration has held a hearing on this issue. It was everyone’s opportunity to voice their opinion and exercise their “free speech.”

Although some have advocated expelling the students or some Draconian punishment, the law is quite clear: This is protected “free speech.”

It is my hope that Cal Poly’s President Warren Baker will educate the mob.

Roger Freberg

San Luis Obispo

What happened next was predictable. Cal Poly held their hearing and a legal beagle working at Cal Poly explained to the mob the true meaning of ‘free speech.’ Obviously, if you are coming to see some punishment, you left rather disappointed, but then, you should have known better. Soon, a letter came in today’s paper attacking me personally, their logic was amusing.

Speech a privilege

This is addressed to Roger Freberg (Letters, Nov. 12) and all the abusers of the First Amendment:

Free speech is not free. It is a privilege!

Yes, you can say what you want, but maybe you should not, out of respect for others — and yourself.

There is an expression in another language which says: Swish your tongues 36 times in your mouth before you speak! Translated in English it becomes: Think before you speak or do something that is supposedly covered under the First Amendment.

Dominique Dunn

Avila Beach

Clearly, Dominique doesn’t understand that we are all protected by a  BILL of RIGHTS  not a Bill of Privileges. The right to speak our minds, the freedom to assemble, a free press ( 1st Amendment), a prohibition against unreasonable search and seizure (4th Amendment) and eight other very important rights that many in our government would like to ignore. For example, although almost any American soldier is welcome in my house, the Bill of Rights prevents the government from forcing me to share my small home (3rd Amendment).

Class is adjourned.

Roger Freberg

free speech means never having to say your sorry

free speech means never having to say you're sorry!

I couldn’t help from borrowing that old cliche from “Love Story” from the early 1970’s. Times seem to be repeating themselves with all of the agitation popping up around the country and here in California. Free Speech on college campuses has been one of the great battles in this decade. College campuses have inaugurated speech codes and other draconian efforts to squash voices that they disagree… however thanks to organizations like FIRE, this is changing.

What is ‘free speech’, anyway? It is the right to express yourself. Now, not all free speech is sweet, a lot of it can be downright offensive, but then who is it to judge? Obviously, there are limits on free speech, like yelling ‘fire’ in a theater, but by and large it is all basically fair game!

And the best way you can combat someone’s offensive free speech is by exercising your own!

This brings us to Cal Poly San Luis Obispo, home of the ‘Sheldon Award Winner’ President Warren Baker.  Currently he is under pressure from various folks who want him to expell and punish, possibly even ‘waterboard’ a few students who in exercising their free speech managed to offend just about everyone. Well, most thinking people feel mobs are bad , so hopefully ol Dr. Baker can get it together long enough to give them a lesson on what is ‘free speech’!

Cal Poly is holding a ‘discussion’ soon and a lot of ‘free speech’ folks are watching.  Here’s why Cal Poly is so worried!

Roger Freberg

Cal Poly gets scary after Halloween

Cal Poly Stars on Indoctrinate U.!

Well, I have heard from a lot of folks I know and a few new friends who watched Indoctrinate U the other night… well, there are some encore performances coming up:

SAT Channel 197 — the Documentary Channel ( NATION WIDE!)

….these times are PACIFIC TIME ( stay up or Tevo)

Saturday — November 1st, 2008 — 2:00 pm – 3:30 pm Pacific Time

Saturday LATE  — November 1st  — 11:00pm  — 1:30am (Sunday)

Monday LATE — November 3rd — MIDNIGHT – 1:30am (Tuesday)


What you may not know:

Evan Coyne Maloney Heroic Documentary Film MakerFor those of you who haven’t heard about what’s happenin’ on college campuses today…let’s just say … it’s not all good.

Evan Coyne Maloney has produced a fascinating film — entitled ” Indoctrinate U.” – on what might be called ‘political correctness’ on college campuses.

One review:

“The Weekly Standardsaid, “The documentary combines relatively shocking footage (one professor excitedly tells the camera “whiteness is a form of racial oppression . . . treason to whiteness is loyalty to humanity”) with snappy editing to create a documentary that bounces quickly from subject to subject.”

Upcoming screenings of the film can be found on their site!

Is this Warren Baker President of Cal Poly?On one hand, on many campuses there exists a hyper-sensitivity to sexually displaying a banana on a campus, ‘hurting’ or ‘offending’ someone’s feelings…. whereas displaying our American Flag could become grounds for suspension some places. The inmates are running the asylum.

So, what has this to do with me? Yep, I — also — appear in the film. For 7 years, my wife — the professor — struggled for existence with Cal Poly State University at San Luis Obispo … and succeeded. And what happened to — in my humble opinion — the “bad guys?”... they eventually all received big raises and promotions.

If you get a chance… check it out. If it hadn’t happened to me… I’d be laughing.

Roger Freberg

PS. The Documentary Channel is available on satellite and many cable systems nationwide. Check your provider for channel information. The schedule is subject to change. For the most up-to-date list of air times, visit: http://tinyurl.com/indoctrinate-u-docu-chan

To find out more about “Indoctrinate U,” go to: http://indoctrinate-u.com/