men really are better AND worse than women

She didn't know she was supposed to be unhappyRoy Baumeister made a presentation last month at the American Psychological Association that is a flash of cold reality to some, heresey to others and a welcomed breath of intellectual honesty to others.

Professor Denis Dutton chronicals Dr. Baumeister’s presentation on his site. Here are some of his points that resonated strongly with me:

1) “Almost certainly, it is something biological and genetic. And my guess is that the greater proportion of men at both extremes of the IQ distribution is part of the same pattern. Nature rolls the dice with men more than women. Men go to extremes more than women. It’s true not just with IQ but also with other things, even height: The male distribution of height is flatter, with more really tall and really short men”

“… In an important sense, men really are better AND worse than women.”

2) “Maybe the differences between the genders are more about motivation than ability. This is the difference between can’t and won’t.

3) “The gist of our view was that there are two different ways of being social. In social psychology we tend to emphasize close, intimate relationships, and yes, perhaps women specialize in those and are better at them than men. But one can also look at being social in terms of having larger networks of shallower relationships, and on these, perhaps, men are more social than women.”

4) “As a result, culture mainly arose in the types of social relationships favored by men. Women favor close, intimate relationships. These are if anything more important for the survival of the species. That’s why human women evolved first. We need those close relationships to survive. The large networks of shallower relationships aren’t as vital for survival — but they are good for something else, namely the development of larger social systems and ultimately for culture.”

My take:  Dr. Baumeister is thoughtful and heroic in presenting a view that no doubt will be viewed as heretical by those who like to view the world as they wish it to be… and not the way it apparently is.

Roger Freberg

Jenny Craig SECRETS now told!

A wonderful

Now does this really look like “DIET” food?

It really really doesn’t look like diet food when I add a large serving of cooked French Beans, mushrooms, carrots, potatoes, pearl onions all dowsed with “Susie Q” brand seasoning!

Thanks to  “Mama Laura”  we are experiencing some of the ‘Meals-on-our-own” from the  Jenny Craig Cookbook … wonderful.

We do plan ‘something special’ for our 35th Wedding anniversary on Wednesday… one of Laura’s family favorites of her youth… a Chicken Pot Pie but with a “South African Dutch-Malay” flavor. It’s called ‘Hoender Pastei’ down there… but it looks delicious. Here’s a sneak peek…

Hoender Pastei... or by any name... delicious!

It takes a lot to make a Hoender Pastei!

Roger Freberg

Laura’s baking her wonderful Amarula Carrot Cake, too!

DOWN 87 pounds on Jenny Craig!

woo woo... this is great stuff!

Well… I have dropped 87 pounds on Jenny Craig! I feel great and I am into size 32 jeans which is very cool.

However, I have come to realize that I still want and NEED great food! Jenny’s food is wonderful… but I do think about food a lot anyway, so this gives me a chance to plan something special now and again. (Our 35th wedding anniversary is on the 12th of September) 

I am particularly fond of the Cape Town favorite “Bobotie”. I bake it often. I am also researching a few other South African and Afrikaner dishes that have caught my attention, like “Smoorvis” (smoked fish and rice) and “Hoender Pastei” (chicken pie).

We are also looking at preparing a ‘Bobotie hamburger”– which will require tweaking the recipe a bit — topped with baked egg, onions and Mrs. Balls Chutney Sauce which sounds very special. It’s in the lab for further study!

Roger Freberg

Here’s our “Bobotie” recipe that contains a lot of traditional flavors (Leipoldt) as well as many of the current wonderful variations out there.

Which University to Attend? Which to Avoid?

Hero of the Oppressed

 

Selecting the university to attend now-a-days is a function of many factors:  academic reputation, social experience and the ever present “which is best for my career”? However, many students enter their university experience only to find themselves marginalized and the subject of unwanted administrative and faculty harassment. This is something every parent… and student should consider. Are you really getting what you are paying for?

In a few days , the premier of  “Indoctrinate U”  will appear in Washington, D.C. and I only wish I could attend… but I will in spirit.

Here’s one short review on the prequel:

“For those who haven’t been on college campuses recently, Maloney’s documentary is eye opening.”
– American Enterprise, On Brainwashing 201

“Non-left academics are harassed for their political views. Students who show a conservative bent are threatened… Campuses are supposed to be marketplaces of ideas where issues stand and fall on their merits. Brainwashing 201 [the short-form precursor to Indoctrinate U] demonstrates effectively that this is now far from the case.”

SoOOooo…

“Mark your calendars for the evening of Friday, September 28th, when
Indoctrinate U will make its public debut at the Kennedy Center in Washington, D.C.

Tickets are now on sale for the event,
which is organized by
the
American Film Renaissance.

Tickets are also available
for the after-party to take place across
the street at 600 Restaurant in the
infamous Watergate Hotel.”

Good Luck, Evan!

Roger Freberg

PS. Part of what’s wrong with many universities today is many have forgotten about their true mission and who they serve. Was it Cal Poly San Luis Obispo in which Evan Maloney was told by some University sycophant that he had not been ‘granted an audience’ with ‘allegedly’ the aging Cal Poly President &  “Sheldon Awardee”  Warren Baker? 

 

 

Burquini …. this year’s best gag gift

Nope.... leaves too much to the imagination

Well, those evil cartoonists are at it again! First, it was those Dutch guys making fun of Islamic Fundamentalist Extremists ( ‘terrorists’ for short )… now it has gone main steam in my dear “OPUS”. I am all for appropriate ‘modesty’… but ‘holy Paris Hilton, Batman, this is ridiculous!”

Well, I guess we should have expected the usual threats to cartoonists, protests from the typical sources and boycotts from sympathetic newspapers have failed to discourage  OPUS  from being read and enjoyed by millions. Free speech is a beautiful thing… when it happens.

By the by, I am very much aware of “Islamic” fashion and here is a link to study as recommended by OPUS: ahiida.com . In case you think you are superior, your female relatives probably dressed like this… back in the 13th century, too.

Roger Freberg