the devils are within the walls

A must read for every parent and every student planning to attend college!

When you live in a university town, one suspects that it is only YOUR university that persecutes unfairly —  sometimes illegally — students, staff and faculty who have crossed some imaginary line. When you see YOUR university violate people’s legal rights, when you witness unconscionable and unethical ( sometimes illegal) behavior, and then see those same individuals proudly promoted, you hope that YOU are seeing only the aberrant behavior of a few individuals in only one troubled university.  Reading Greg Lukianoff’s book clearly documents that YOUR university isn’t really alone. What is most disturbing to me is that never is there an ounce of concern or remorse by college faculty or administrators on the harm they inflict to others, the careers they ruin or the families they harm; they are proud because they feel completely justified; they believe they are on the side of the angels following orders from on high.

The university ‘culture’ is not without justifiable criticism. Speakers coming to campus should be allowed to speak; mob rule is not a form of government. Conformity and compliance are the mainstream values of many faculty and administrators and these values are strongly monitored and strictly enforced. I was once told that the university ‘rewards compliance and not achievement.’  We’ve all seen the result of compliance taken to the extreme before; people have claimed to be “Just following orders” to justify doing horrible things. Under the right supportive conditions, horrible things can be done by almost anyone.

Stanley Milgram wanted to see how far you could push people (Americans) to achieve compliance on a task that may result in the death of another.  His experiment  is legend .

“Milgram devised his psychological study to answer the question: “Was it that Eichmann and his accomplices in the Holocaust had mutual intent, in at least with regard to the goals of the Holocaust?” In other words, “Was there a mutual sense of morality among those involved?” Milgram’s testing suggested that it could have been that the millions of accomplices were merely following orders, despite violating their deepest moral beliefs.” (Wikipedia)

Milgram’s study clearly demonstrated that Germans were not inherently barbarians, but under simple guidance, this barbaric behavior could come from almost anyone, even from Americans.

Greg’s book is a grave warning on the future of American society that blindly complies and allows their ability to speak opposing views restricted. It is chilling to think we are not far from a society where you could be silenced by what you say, or even, by what someone thought you said…. and those in authority would feel no guilt because  ‘they we just following orders.’

Buy “Unlearning Liberty” the Book (Amazon)  a book everyone going to college and their parents should read!

 

 

Spaghetti for one

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My daughter Karla wanted Spaghetti with meatballs for lunch and since I am dieting… I accepted the challenge of making one serving. The sauce and noodles for one presents no challenge… But meatballs means drastically reducing and modifying our recipes.

I decided to vary my Scandinavian meatball for the occasion and ground my own beef:

MEATBALLS for One

1 egg
1/2 pound beef ground
1/3 cup bread crumbs
1 teaspoon brown sugar

1 teaspoon combination : salt, pepper, garlic powder

1/8 teaspoon combination: white pepper, allspice, cloves and nutmeg

Procedure : fry in a pan with a little olive oil

Yum!

Watching Dr. Freberg 2.0 teach

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I arrived in Louisville, Kentucky to wish our daughter Karen a happy birthday… And to share a day in her life. Karen is an Assistant Professor in Strategic Communications with many interdisciplinary research lines of interest from Social Media, crisis communication to related fields in Psychology and business.

Today, I sat in on two classes and really enjoyed the multi-media interactive lecture. Although I really found these classes interesting… The problem I see is that they would require me to take extensive notes…. Fun but work. Fortunately for me… I am not in these classes.

Watching my daughter teach

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Our family enjoys doing many things and “teaching” is something we all do.

With this in mind, and with my daughter’s upcoming birthday , I wanted to see her classes. I will leave her formal evaluation to others… But I did enjoy seeing some almost hereditary mannerisms that seemingly came from times she sat in her mother’s or my classes.

At West Point, the students are very focused but I did see some unusually high motivation… If it were me, I would use the word “fear.” I know that look … I have experienced it myself as a younger man in a fast paced class.

Kristin reminds me much of her mother… Someone who can look into your soul and know you are unprepared. I am proud that Kristin is standing and delivering a great educational experience… But I am glad there is no test tomorrow… At least for me.